This reminds me of a very recommended article from cracked titled "
5 Creepy Ways Video Games Are Trying to Get You Addicted". Which helps you understand the reasoning behind some of the recurrent things in games we rarely stop to think.
I think it is natural that many people like in games taht they are able to do things that they can't in Real life, to escape reality a bit. I remember taht when I used to go to the GYM I'd forget about the world in that hour, and I am sure many other hobbies help people to cope and accomplish this.
It is a very nice article, not condemning gaming but simply asking us to question ourselves what moves us to do it, that is something good.
I don't know exactly why, but I might have some of that or I might just have grown up and I don't longer have the energy to play for long hours like I used to when I was a kid, kind of the same way people can't party like thy used to as they leave their young adult years.
I guess partly is because I have this weird idea that a game is kind of a contract, I want to start just because I know I can have date daily with the title until I finish it, just like a good book. Internet feels like something I'll do quickly (but I always end up lasting way more I think I will), with games I know beforehand I want to last 2 hours and I will be returning next day. It is not a bad chore but I don't want to compromise. If I don't play in a while I may end up restarting the game and if I do taht often then it will become annoying and I might decide avoid it altogether.
Anyway tackling the main question,
why do I play games? Because I enjoy it. There are so many different games and I enjoy the multi player experience as well as the ones meant to be solo.
I love having a good time with my friends and I like to immerse myself in different worlds. Some games have given me food for thought. It is a hobby I entered when I was little and one I haven't grown out of, nor think I'll ever do. Using your imagination and being playful does not undermine my ability to make rational, mature decisions.
I have yet to become unhealthily obsessive to videogames.